Q&A: Siddha-identity in everyday life: Harmonizing siddha-deha with ordinary activities

Q: I have been wondering how one harmonizes one's siddha-identity with "ordinary" activities like bathing, eating, going to the toilet etc. Or is that a kind of mental switch, like during bhajan I am X gopi (siddha-deha), then I turn into Y das (sadhaka-deha) and do my ordinary activities until its bhajan time again? How can I meditate upon myself as a perfected, spiritual entity while being sick, driving a car, using my mobile phone or arguing with the boss in the office etc.?

A:  In his Bhakti-rasamrita-sindhu, Sripad Rupa Goswamipad presents the famous two-fold division of seva to be undertaken by those who seek to follow the raga-marga:

sevA sAdhaka-rUpeNa siddha-rUpeNa cAtra hi |
tad-bhAva-lipsunA kAryA vraja-lokAnusArataH || brs 1.2.295

"Serving in the sadhaka-form, as well as in the siddha-form, engaged in activities while desiring the mood of the residents of Vraja, following in their wake."

The external sadhaka-life is to be undertaken while emulating the example of the Goswamis of Vrindavan, engaged in the varieties of devotional services led by sravana, kirtana, archana and so forth. These activities are classified as svAbhISTa-bhAva-sambandhi, or as having a direct relationship with one's desired feelings. These activities, even though undertaken in the external body, lead one to the identity within. Therefore, there is no essential conflict between the two realms in which service has been undertaken.

Such activities of devotional service are also known as svarUpa-siddha-bhakti, or acts that are inherently devotional by their nature. This classification has been presented in contrast to saGga-siddha-bhakti, or elements that attain the quality of devotion through contact with devotion, and aropa-siddha-bhakti, or activities over which the quality of devotion is superimposed, and that are therefore considered to be akin to bhakti.

The quality for kindling inner revelation that is inherent in activities of svarUpa-siddha-bhakti lacks in the two other categories. Activities such as maintaining one's livelihood through work in the society, and thereby maintaining one's facility for devotional services, are generally known as aropa-siddha-bhakti, or activities that become devotional through superimposition. The activities are not devotional in and of themselves, their quality is transformed after the event through the devotee's internal spirit of offering and surrender.

Though elements of aropa-siddha-bhakti are also helpful, and indeed a necessity at a certain stage, they must begin to withdraw as one enters into the world of siddha-rUpa-sevA. Lacking a direct connection with the transcendent realm in which the seva is to take place, they have a great potential for distracting the mind. Some elevated souls are able to transmutate even worldly activities into direct acts of devotion through the power of their smarana, remaining aloof from external influence. However, most sadhakas will find that such external activities will prove to be obstacles in the practice of smarana.

Some aspects of ordinary daily life have qualities that are parallel to the course of the lila. Therefore, someone conversant with the lila can easily attribute the self-conception of the svarupa and the flow of the lila over them and remain in the proper self-identity in the course of the said activities. One should, as far as possible, seek to organize his life in a manner that facilitiates absorption in the lila throughout the day.

The adoption of a specific transcendent identity and the subsequent gradual absorption in the nectarine services of Radha-Krishna possess a vast potential for attracting and containing the consciousness beyond and away from this world. Therefore, as one becomes more accomplished in such practices, he will find it harder and harder to dwell amidst a mundane environment, so much so that time spent in distraction will begin to be felt as painful, and indeed unbearable. The two worlds don't mix together all that well.

For success in smarana, it is vital that one protect the consciousness from outer influences, as smarana is dependent on the purity of the mind – smaraNaM tu zuddhAntaH-karaNatAm apekSate (BhS 276). The foremost among the purifiers of the heart is the chanting of the divine Name, which one should chant at least one lakh, or sixty-four rounds, daily. Before exposing the matter of raga-bhajana (verse 8) in his Upadeshamrita, Srila Rupa Goswamipad has laid emphasis on the worship of the Name as the healer of the polluted heart (verse 7). Chanting a lakh of Names or more, along with the other devotional duties that must be undertaken to support the inner worship, take a substantial amount of time.

All of this has led some mahatmas to conclude that one should renounce the world as a prerequisite for the practice of lila-smarana. While the formal acceptance of the life of a renunciate is not necessarily called for, a withdrawal from the world is instrumental in making the practice successful. Successful smarana calls for exclusivity, and it calls for the absolute rejection of mundane desire. A heart riddled by the mundane, devoid of suddha-bhakti, is not eligible for entrance into the kingdom of rasa.

One must remember that svarupa-meditation and lila-smarana are not a matter of mere techniques of visualization. The lila is self-manifest by nature and arises of grace, grace that is drawn towards one who forsakes all for the sake of a wholehearted devotional pursuit. The appearance of the lila in the chamber of the heart cannot be forced. It flows naturally in a pure and devoted heart, and is therefore aptly called svarasiki. The varieties of meditation, memorization and visualization that are undertaken, despite their being instrumental in supporting the attainment, do not possess the power for revealing the lila and bestowing saksat-seva.

One may also, disregarding all of the above, engage in a semblance of cultivation of svarupa-meditation and lila-smarana. While through that bhajana-siddhi will not be attained, often a favorable samskara is created, a samskara that will in due course of time lead the devotee to the shelter of realized bhajananandi-mahatmas who infuse him with the power to leave behind the mundane and embrace a life of bhajan. Prior to that, practices of smarana are reminiscent of a child's play with dolls. Feeding a doll and putting it to sleep gives a conception of what having a baby is like, and yet the experience is far removed from the labor a mother must bear in caring for a child.

Q&A: Mundane music, movies and literature: Are they harmful for the practice of bhakti?

Q: Are mundane music, movies and literature harmful for the practice of bhakti? If one is attached to them, will the genre make any difference, for example documentaries vs. romance, or classical music or ragas vs. techno?

A: As a matter of general principle, mundane music, movies and literature are harmful for the development of bhakti. When assessing the devotional worth of a sense object, one must evaluate its effect on the consciousness. If a sense object does not contribute to the positive cultivation of awareness of and love for Krishna, it is contrary to devotion.

The fruit of subjecting one to mundane influences is the development of mundane desires: saGgAt saJjAyate kAmaH. Asat-sanga, or the company of the unholy, has been mentioned in countless scriptures as being contrary to devotion. Thakur Mahashaya writes in his Prema-bhakti Chandrika:

asat saGgati sadA, tyAga koro anya gItA, karmI jJAnI parihari dUre |
kevala bhakata saGga, prema-bhakti-rasa raGga, lIlA-kathA vraja-rasa-pure || pbc 15

"Always give up the company of the unholy and all other songs, stay afar from the pursuers of worldly fruits and the speculators. Keep only the company of devotees, seek delight in prema-bhakti-rasa, and engage in lila-katha in Vraja, the abode of rasa."

Were you to keep the company of the worldly or seek pleasure in their amusements, whether through direct company or vicariously enjoying through worldly movies, music and literature, you would develop attachment to the same, and in proportion your taste for Vraja-rasa would dwindle. Therefore, stay aloof!

The question is sometimes asked, "But there are some movies that contain some spiritual ideas, sometimes quite similar to our philosophy. Surely it is all right to watch them?" The inquirer must then consider this: What is the motivation in watching it? You can read the scriptures or discuss with sadhus and hear spiritual ideas that do not only resemble it, but are the real thing itself. What more could you gain from a movie made by worldly authors? How much of the input of the movie is truly of spiritual import, and how many undesired influences are introduced in the course of the movie? We are yet to hear of a mainstream movie where the balance would have been tipped in favor of positive spiritual influences in the context of our desired mode of bhajan.

Mundane music is essentially a glorification of the ways of the world. A grand deal of the time in glorifying the pleasures of life, some of the time in exploring spirituality, in introspection. Yet, of what benefit will the diverse spiritual influences be to a loving devotee who casts afar even love for the Lord of Vaikuntha? In the words of Srila Raghunath Das Goswami, in instructing his mind:

api tyaktvA lakSmI-pati-ratim ito vyoma-nayanIM
vraje rAdhA-kRSNau sva-rati-maNidau tvaM bhaja manaH || ms 4

"Also forsake love for the Consort of Lakshmi, as it'd lead you to Vaikuntha;
O Mind! Worship Radha and Krishna of Vraja, the bestowers of the jewel of their love!"

If one does has not imbibed this exclusive concept of devotion, how will the fruits of sadhana be tasted? The nectarine fruits of sadhana are available for the relish of those engaged in exclusive worship, casting afar both the mundane and the contrary spiritual tastes.

Are there gradations of difference between different modes of entertainment? Yes, certainly, inasmuch as all phenomena of the world are appearances of the three modes of nature. Pursuits for enjoyment and material progress are superior to madness and ignorance, and search for knowledge supersedes pursuits for enjoyement. Yet, they are all shackles binding us to the temporary world. In Sri Krishna's words to Arjuna:

trai-guNya-viSayA vedA nistrai-guNyo bhavArjuna |
nirdvandvo nitya-sattva-stho niryoga-kSema AtmavAn || bg 2.45

"The Vedas deal with the enjoyments of the three modes; free yourself of the three modes, O Arjuna! Rise and be established in the eternal reality beyond duality, free from concerns of sustenance, established in the self!"

If this is true of the ancient literature of the sages, then how much more is this true of contemporary mundane literature! The question may again arise, "But surely the study of such literature may be undertaken as a matter of acquainting oneself with the ways of the world, to be able to present the path of devotion in a meaningful manner?" Thus speaks the preacher. The Bhagavata says:

veda-vAda-rato na syAn na pASaNDI na haitukaH |
zuSka-vAda-vivAde na kaJcit pakSaM samAzrayet || bhAg 11.18.30

"Do not devote yourself to the rituals of the Vedas, do not engage in arguments over fruitless topics with atheists and logicians, never take sides on such topics."

Sri Jiva Goswami comments on the words pASaNDI na syAd, iti pUrva-pakSa-jJAnArtham api pASaNDa-mataM nAbhyased ityarthaH - "Do not study the opinions of the atheists for the sake of gaining knowledge of counter-argumentation." Since mundane knowledge is not conclusive, but is ever-changing by its nature, there is no end in sight to entangling engagements in the realm of mundane knowledge.

The path of devotion stands on its own merit, it calls for no contextualization to exercise its effect. The message of devotion has a deep impact on the heart of the hearer when originating from a pure source, from a loving and spotless heart. The hearer, witnessing the other-worldly qualities of the speaker, will take a keen interest in the message without regard for the context it appears in. Whatever cultural or topical contextualization may be there, it must remain subservient to the effect of the devotee's own practice and absorption. One should keep his focus on cultivating the heart.

There are useful spheres of knowledge in the mundane realm; the classical arts of music, poetry and so forth are all worthy of being engaged as a matter of seva, of loving service. These classical arts are present both in this world and the world of divine play. Studying them with the aim of engaging them for the pleasure of Radha and Krishna is a worthy undertaking indeed, as long as the study is kept in the proper perspective. Familiarity with languages such as Bengali and Sanskrit opens new doors of devotional insight in the form of direct access to the countless works of divine inspiration in our vast canon of literature, and it bestows the ability to interact with sadhus in their native language.

Additionally, if there are fields of knowledge that must be pursued as a matter of fulfilling one's occupational duties and maintaining one's livelihood, and if such pursuits are undertaken in a spirit of detachment, they will not have an adverse effect on devotional cultivation, though they may certainly be a distracting and time-consuming factor. As long as one lives in this world in a situation short of full withdrawal from the world, a degree of awareness and information of the ways of the world is called for. Yet, one must always exercise caution and re-evaluate the nature of the situation and of one's heart's feeling in relation to the said undertakings.

The nature of the mind is to seek variety, to seek novelties; the nature of the senses is to be drawn to sense objects. In absence of spiritual counterparts, the two are naturally drawn towards mundane objects. One should, therefore, always seek to place himself in a position surrounded by divine objects and divine company. It is with this great need in mind that we are constantly striving to produce varieties of devotional media, facilitating different avenues of devotional interaction. It is our sincere prayer that the devotees scattered across the globe, often in isolation and amidst unfavorable influences, take full advantage of what is being offered.