Q&A: Celibacy and married life: What do the acharyas teach of the need for celibacy?

Q: What are the teachings of the acharyas concerning celibacy and married life? What if one is unable to follow the highest standard, or the standard described in the scriptures?

A:  The accepted form of sexual indulgement that does runs in accordance with the principles of dharma, and hence with the practice of bhakti-sadhana, has been described as bodily union taking place for the sake of generating progeny with one's duly wedded partner. With these notes, we'll focus on reviewing the evidences in the writings of the acharyas on this often-debated matter. The practices for becoming free of sexual desire will be discussed in a separate entry.

In the first verse of his Upadeshamrita, we read Sri Rupa Goswami listing upastha-vega, or the urges of the genitals, as one of the urges that need to be conquered over. Commenting on the verse, Sri Radha-Raman Das Goswami notes, tena ca tat-tad-vega-sahanasya bhakti-pravezopayogitvam eva na tu sAdhanatvam - "By forbearing all these urges, mere entrance to bhakti is gained; it is not a sadhana-practice." Hence, in entering into the world of suddha-bhakti, the control of sexual desire is called for.

As one in his list of definitions of what a Vaishnava is, Sri Jiva Goswami cites Skanda Purana and the instructions of Markandeya to Bhagiratha:

yathA skAnde mArkaNDeya-bhagIratha-saMvAde -
dharmArthaM jIvitaM yeSAM santAnArthaM ca maithunam |
pacanaM vipramukhyArthaM jJeyAs te vaiSNavA narAH ||

atra zrI-viSNor AjJA-buddhyaiva tat tat kriyata iti vaiSNava-padena gamyate || bhs 202

"Those people for whom the purpose of life is religion, for whom the purpose of sexual intercourse are children, and for whom the purpose of cooking is to serve the brahmins, they are Vaishnavas."
Thus those, who act in awareness of the orders of Vishnu, are understood as Vaishnavas.

The essence of the thought here is that a Vaishnava would not do something that wouldn't be pleasing to Vishnu, and since sexual intercourse without a purpose beyond enjoyment isn't something that can be offered, a Vaishnava would not engage in it. Then, the Bhagavata repeats the concept in three locations, describing the suitable period for sexual union:

gRhasthasya Rtu-gAminaH || bhp 7.12.11

"The householder should have sexual intercourse only in the fertile season."

gRhasthasyApy Rtau gantuH || bhp 11.18.43

"However [though brahmacharya was described], the householder may approach his wife for intercourse in the fertile season."

evaM vyavAyaH prajayA na ratyA
imaM vizuddhaM na viduH sva-dharmam || bhp 11.5.13

"In the same way [as with other injunctions giving room for sensual indulgence], sexual intercourse should not be for the sake of lust, but for the sake of progeny. Regardless, people do not understand such pure sva-dharmas."

Thus the pure sva-dharma, or the religious duty of the householder, has been defined.

Is there a spiritual application for sexuality, can we not employ our sex desire in the service of Krishna? The famous verse of Bhagavad-gita (7.11) addresses the matter:

dharmAviruddho bhUteSu kAmo’smi bharatarSabha || bg 7.11

"I am that lust, O greatest of the Bharatas, that is not contrary to dharma."

On this passage, there are varieties of commentaries. We embrace the words of our own purva-acharyas as the ones we are to follow. The commentaries read as follows:

zrIdharaH -- dharmeNAviruddhaH sva-dAreSu putrotpAdana-mAtropayogI kAmo’ham iti ||
vizvanAthaH -- dharmAviruddhaH sva-bhAryAyAM putrotpatti-mAtropayogI ||
baladevaH -- dharmAviruddhaH svapatnyAM putrotpatti-mAtra-hetuH ||

Sridhara: "I am the lust that is not contrary to dharma and of which the sole purpose is the bestowal of progeny for one's wife."
Vishvanath: "Not contrary to dharma means in such a way that the birth of progeny from one's wife is the sole aim."
Baladeva: "Not contrary to dharma means for the sole cause of the birth of progeny from one's wife."

Hence, begetting children that are educated in the principles of good, religious life is the desired application of sex desire. Hari-bhakti-vilasa, citing Padma-purana (5.9.44-47), praises this as the equivalent of brahmacharya:

Rtu-kAlAbhigAmI yaH sva-dAra-nirataz ca yaH |
sarvadA brahmacArIha vijJeyaH sa gRhAzramI || 11.156
...
iti matvA sva-dAreSu Rtumatsu budho vrajet |
yathokta-doSa-hIneSu sakAmeSv anRtAv api || 11.173

"The householder who approaches his devoted wife for intercourse in the period suitable for fertilization is known to always be a brahmachari."
"Thus, the intelligent person will approach his wife in the fertile period. That is said to be free of faults even if done to satisfy one's desires."

Going beyond the realm of sva-dharma into the realm of sadhana, there are further considerations. In Sadhana-dipika of Radha-Krishna Das Goswami, an early mahatma of Vrindavan, specific characteristics for eligibility for rAgAnugA-bhakti are outlined:

vizeSato rAgAnugAdhikAri-lakSaNaM darzayati (brs 1.4.7) --

na patiM kAmayet kaJcid brahmacarya-sthitA sadA |
tam-eva mUrtiM dhyAyantI candrakantir-varAnanA ||

The specific characteristics of the one who is eligible for rAgAnugA are given as follows (BRS 1.4.7):

"The beautiful-faced Chandrakanti did not desire a husband and always remained fixed in celibacy, meditating on Krishna's form."

Some have objected to this passage, suggesting that the citation is out of place since it is taken from the fourth chapter of the first division of Bhakti-rasamrita-sindhu discussing the topic of prema, and that therefore brahmacharya would be for those on the stage of prema, not on the stage of sAdhana. However, Rupa Goswami presents Chandrakanti as someone who attained prema originating from bhAva due to rAgAnugA-bhakti (rAgAnugIya-bhAvottho yathA...), and the fact that she remained celibate all the time must mean she practiced brahmacharya also during the stage of sAdhana.

Radha-Krishna Das Goswami continues under the same heading:

smaraNaM kIrtanaM keliH prekSaNaM guhya-bhASaNam |
saGkalpo’dhyavasAyaz ca kriyA-nirvRtir eva ca ||
etan-maithunam aSTAGgaM pravadanti manISiNaH |
viparItaM brahmacaryam etad evASTa-lakSaNam || ity Adi || (vairAgya-martAnda 12.144-145)

"Thinking of sex, praising sex, engaging in amorous acts, looking at sex, speaking of it in confidence, making a decision to do it, to pursue it and to engage in its activities -- these are the eight aspects of copulation determined by the wise. Those engaged in brahmacharya should abstain from these eight aspects."

This brings us back to reflect on the power of sexual indulgence in its varieties forms to condition the consciousness into the confines of a material identity. Pursuit for the other-worldly identity is at the core of rAgAnugA-bhakti-sAdhana, and a sincere sAdhaka should endeavor to leave behind activities contrary to such cultivation.

All the aforenoted evidences should leave little room for interpretation over the ideal standard for a bhakti-sAdhaka. "However," someone may ask, "did the acharyas really understand our situation in this material world?" Yes, they certainly did; moreover, they had great confidence in the power of devotional practice when properly applied. Brahmacharya and other such virtues of restraint arise naturally in one who has turned his attention towards Krishna:

kRSNonmukhaM svayaM yAnti yamAH zaucAdayas tathA || brs 1.2.261

"Various restraints [among which Jiva glosses brahmacharya], purity and so forth arise of their own accord in the one who has turned his attention towards Krishna."

Hence, the virtue of celibacy will undoubtedly arise of its own accord in the one who is sincerely engaged in the practice of bhakti-sAdhana, even without separate endeavors!

Should one have lapses in his observances of the desired standard of abstinence, the following words of consolation are offered in the Bhagavata:

jAta-zraddho mat-kathAsu nirviNNaH sarva-karmasu |
veda duHkhAtmakAn kAmAn parityAge ’py anIzvaraH ||
tato bhajeta mAM prItaH zraddhAlur dRDha-nizcayaH |
juSamANaz ca tAn kAmAn duHkhodarkAMz ca garhayan || bhp 11.20.27-28

"He, whose faith for narrations of me has awakened, and who is disgusted with all works,
knowing all varieties of kAma as imbued with grief, is still unable to renounce them;
He should worship me, engaged with love, with faith and with firm conviction,
Reproaching the desires that lead to misery."

With such a meek and resolute approach, the grace of Bhagavan and Vaishnavas is quickly invoked, the obstacles on the path of devotion are swept aside, and the worshipable form of the Lord is firmly situated within the inner chambers of his heart. However, the one who philosophizes on the myriads of possible so-called spiritual applications of sexuality with a keen inclination for indulgement, will not attain para-bhakti in a hundred births without renouncing the intellect binding him to the material world. We read in the Gita:

yaH zAstra-vidhim utsRjya vartate kAma-kArataH |
na sa siddhim avApnoti na sukhaM na parAM gatim || bg 16.23

"He, who discards the precepts of the scripture, led to acts by kAma,
He will not attain siddhi, nor joy, nor the supreme destination."

Baladeva notes, sa siddhiM pumarthopAya-bhUtAM hRd-vizuddhiM naivApnoti - "He will certainly not attain that siddhi, the attainment of the means for the aims of human life, the fresh purity of the heart." Let us therefore, in all earnestness and enthusiasm, seek to embrace the desired standard of abstinence, knowing it is instrumental in attaining successive stages of devotional progress.

UP 1 - Introduction - The proper application of renunciation with bhakti

The opening verse of the text, and the main object of this study, reads as follows:

vAco vegaM manasaH krodha-vegaM
jihvA-vegam udaropastha-vegam |
etAn vegAn yo viSaheta dhIraH
sarvAm apImAM pRthivIM sa ziSyAt || 1 ||

“The urge of the speech, the urges of the mind and the anger,
the urge of the tongue, the urges of the belly and the genitals –
he who withstands these urges is sober;
The whole world is his student indeed.”

Our study of Upadeshamrita will contain many instructions on activities that should be avoided, as well as on practices that are obligatory. The negative undertakings, are they not a form of renunciation, and is it not said that renunciation does not bring about devotion? Moreover, is it not said that renunciation hardens the heart?

In pondering the matter, let us turn to Bhakti-rasamrita-sindhu and the first ten of the 64 aspects of bhakti, the ten that should be priorized on in the beginning. Among them, we find bhogAdi-tyAgaH kRSNasya hetave - "Giving up enjoyments and so forth for the sake of Krishna." We renounce as a matter of love. We leave aside acts our beloved Thakur would not want us to engage in. Is that not devotion? Yes, it is! And indeed, is there devotion if this attitude isn't there? No, there truly isn't!

Renunciation as a separate undertaking is not an aspect of bhakti, though it may come in handy (BRS 1.2.248) at the early steps of the path, in entering devotional practices; a renounced person is generally less distracted and has more time at his disposal. The renunciation advocated in Srila Goswamipad's work, however, is not renunciation as a separate undertaking. The aspects of renunciation recommended are mentioned as a matter of direct cultivation of bhajana, as a matter of clearing aside obstacles from the desired devotional practices.

One should be willing to make sacrifices for the sake of devotional progress. With this thought in our hearts, we'll embark on this study of Sri Upadeshamrita.

- How does one relate to sense objects while acting according to yukta-vairagya?

Rupa Goswamipad has defined yukta-vairagya as follows:

anAsaktasya viSayAn yathArham upayuJjataH |
nirbandhaH kRSNa-sambandhe yuktaM vairAgyam ucyate || brs 1.2.255

"Devoid of attachment to sense-objects, engaging them in a manner related to Krishna -- this is called befitting renunciation."

One should therefore measure the worth of objects in terms of their relationship with bhagavat-seva. If they are unsuitable, they are to be renounced. If they are suitable, they may be accepted. That does not, however, mean that everything that in theory could be used for Krishna should be embraced! One should only accept as much as is required for the sustenance of the body and other such necessities. One should beware taraGga-raGgiNI, or "enjoying the waves" of bhakti's byproducts, thereby getting entangled with selfish enjoyments in the name of service for Krishna.

The sense-objects neither repulse nor attract the devotee. This is the meaning of "unattached". Attraction and repulsion are both symptoms of the presence of a selfish relationship.

- What could we sacrifice in the spirit of devotional renunciation to please Sri Krishna and progress in bhakti?

The spirit of saranagati calls us, AnukUlyasya saGkalpaH prAtikUlya-vivarjanam (HBV 11.676) - "To embrace the favorable, to shun the contrary." Whatever aspects of our lives run contrary to a life of devotion deserve to be re-molded. Some aspects are fit to be changed in an instant, some aspects need work over a period of time. All of that is to be embraced, all of that falls under proper devotional renunciation.

- What are examples of objects used for REAL yukta-vairagya?

- Wearing a cloth to cover the mid-part of your body.
- Keeping a pot and some firewood for cooking to your deity, taking his remnants for sustenance.
- Seeking shelter in extreme weather conditions to keep the body fit for bhajan.

Beyond that, it's all individual. In my case, having electricity and keeping a laptop to keep up with the study group and the rest is yukta-vairagya. For someone else, having a laptop may be an unnecessary diversion. For my wife, having a heater here at mid-winter is yukta-vairagya, as without it she would fall sick immediately. Since my body does not call for one, for me to insist on having one would be outside the scope of yukta-vairagya.

The question one needs to be asking is, "Does this improve the quality of my seva?" If it doesn't, chances are it's unnecessary and worth giving up.

- Which aspects of renunciation may prove to be useful at the early steps of the path of bhakti?

Certain aspects of renunciation, such as those noted in verses 1 to 3 of the work, are beneficial for devotion, as they ease the mind's absorption in devotional works and thoughts. Some nsoteworthy aspects:

1. Renunciation from excessive talk (vac-vega) and idle talks (prajalpa).

2. Control of the mind (manasa-vega), withdrawing the senses from the world, abstaining from anger (krodha-vega).

3. Regulated eating (jihvA-vega, udara-vega), avoiding of excessive eating (atyAhAra).

4. Abstaining from sex (upastha-vega) and the company of people longing for it (jana-saGga), as well as from other unholy company.

5. Withdrawing from excessive endeavors in the mundane realm (prayAsa).

6. Fortitude (dhairya) in following principles (niyamAgraha) and engaging in appropriate activity (tat-tat-karma-pravartana).

7. Not pursuing worldly interests (laulya).

8. Enthusiasm (utsaha) in faithfully (nizcaya) pursuing other-worldly attainments.

9. Maintaining a purity of conduct (sad-vRtti).

All of the above are very helpful, when applied in the context of devotional practices.

- Which aspects of renunciation are contrary to bhakti, and why?

As a matter of general principle, renouncing that which ought to be duly employed in the worship and service of Hari is contrary to bhakti. Some examples:

1. Renouncing company altogether, thereby missing the opportunity for devotional company (sAdhu-saGga).

2. Believing that all exchanges of love in this world are worldly, behaving in the company of devotees in an utilitarian manner without developing attachment for them. (See verse 4, loving exchanges with devotees.)

3. Regarding the passion for devotion (anurAga) present in various degrees in both the advanced sadhakas and the nitya-siddha Vrajavasis as an unwelcome disturbance in one's mental equilibrium, and therefore unreal.

4. Avoiding responsibility for varieties of services (sevA) for the pleasure of Guru, Vaishnavas and Krishna, regarding it as an unwelcome entanglement.

5. Disregarding external worship (arcana) and the collection and maintenance of related paraphernalia to avoid entanglement with the world.

6. A dislike for musical and artistic expression, failure to see them as sound mediums of devotional expression, and indeed as integral aspects of devotion both in this world and beyond.

In this way, there are countless ways of false renunciation, renunciation that misses the point of service and deprives one from the good fortune of devotional engagement.

Gaudiya.Com: Practice

  A sadhu engaged in meditation

A profound conception of divine truths naturally leads one to adopt various practices in obtaining the desired goal of life. While faith in the precepts of the tradition is certainly desirable, it is not sufficient in itself. There must be a method of practically realizing the truth of the object of our faith. This method is collectively called "sadhana", the means of attainment.

In the Gaudiya Vaishnava tradition, the essential outline for all practices is presented as follows by Rupa Gosvami in his Bhakti Rasamrita Sindhu, which is one of the core texts for the tradition:

"One should remember Krishna along with His dear eternal associates of one's own preference. With attachment to discussions about them, one should always live in Vraja."

"One should serve both in his physical body and in his internally conceived spiritual body, following in the footsteps of the residents of Vraja, desiring to obtain a mood similar to theirs."

"On the path of raganuga-bhakti, one should also adopt the limbs of vaidhi-bhakti, such as hearing about Krishna and glorifying Him. Thus the great sages have concluded."

The object of practice, as is evident from the above, is to attain a position similar one to the eternal associates of Krishna in the realm of Vraja, the pinnacle of the spiritual world, thus exquisitely serving the Supreme Person with all of one's loving feelings.

Congregational chanting

PRELIMINARY INSTRUCTIONS

In Upadesamrita (Nectarine Instructions), Rupa Gosvami delineates six items detrimental for devotion and six items conducive for devotion, which are to be deeply considered and adopted by all sincere aspirants.

Six items detrimental to the development of devotion are as follows: (1) eating too much or collecting more than necessary, (2) endeavours which are opposed to bhakti, (3) useless mundane talks, (4) failure to adopt essential regulations or fanatical adherence to regulations, (5) association with persons who are opposed to bhakti, and (6) ardent longing for the mundane.

Six items favorable for the development of devotion are as follows: (1) enthusiasm, (2) firm faith, (3) patience and fortitude even amidst obstacles, (4) performance of proper activities, (5) giving up undesirable association, and (6) molding one's life similar to that of earlier saints.

TWO VARIETIES OF PRACTICE

The practices are divided into two main categories, which are as follows:

(1) Service in the physical body -- In his physical body, the aspirant follows in the footsteps of the great teachers of the past, engaging in various activities such as associating with saints, chanting the holy names, hearing discourses about the philosophy and the pastimes of Sri Krishna and His beloved associates, worshiping the Deity form of the Lord on the altar, and residing in a holy place. This will be elaborated upon later on in this presentation.

(2) Service in the internally conceived body -- In his internally conceived spiritual body, which is suitable for rendering particular services to the Divine Couple, the aspirant engages in the practice of smarana, rememembrance. This service has two phases, namely static meditation and dynamic meditation. They are understood as follows:

(1) Mantramayi-upasana (static meditiation) -- The aspirant meditates on the Divine Couple seated in the midst of yogapitha (seat of union) formed in the shape of an eight-petaled lotus. The Divine Couple are surrounded by Their confidantes, namely the eight sakhis (girl-friends), who are located on the inner eight petals of the lotus, and the eight manjaris (maidservants) who are located on the next eight petals of the lotus. Following his guru who has assumed a form similar to the confidantes of the Divine couple, the aspirant renders various services to everyone in his own internal guru-given form of a maidservant.

(2) Svarasiki-upasana (dynamic meditation) -- The aspirant meditates on the eight-fold daily pastimes of the Divine Couple, rendering various services which have been assigned to him (her) by the guru, and which are appropriate for the ongoing pastime. Generally the meditation on the daily pastimes of Radha-Krishna is preceded by a shorter contemplation on the corresponding daily pastimes of Sri Chaitanya, who is understood to Krishna Himself in the form of His devotee.

The practices of the aspirant naturally begin with the services performed with the physical body. In the course of time, as his understanding and ability of concentration increase, the internal practices become more and more prominent. However, the two are never to be separated from each other. They are to be adopted in a relationship of interdependence, where progress in one nourishes the other.

PROMINENT ASPECTS OF PRACTICE

The practices undertaken with the physical body will naturally be the prominent side of practice in the eyes of the world. Moreover, the internal, esoteric practices are not the subject matter of elaborate public discourses. Therefore, we shall focus on the external practices, which are of paramount importance in attaining genuine internal absorption in love of God.

In his Bhakti Rasamrita Sindhu, Rupa Gosvami has divided the various practices of bhakti in sixty-four categories, beginning with accepting a spiritual teacher (guru), receiving initiation and instructions from him, serving him, living a life following in the footsteps of the saints, and inquiring about matters of worship (bhajana). An extensive discourse on this matter is not in place in this context, so we shall only focus on five of them, which were declared as the most important by Sri Chaitanya.

(1) Sadhu-sanga
(Associating with Saints)

In the scriptures, association with saints is declared to be the root cause of love and devotion to the Lord. In the association of saints, all aspects of devotional service become perfected. They are a living example of a practical life of devotion.

One should render service to saints and offer them items they need, and lovingly accept whatever they offer in turn. One should reveal his mind to them in confidence, and carefully hear their realized instructions. One should feed them and accept their remnants with respect and devotion as a form of their grace.

Anyone who has taken up the path of spiritual life is certainly a saintly person. However, to reap the full benefit of association, one has to discriminate between devotees of different grades. One should respect in his mind everyone who is inclined towads spiritual life, one should offer respects to and make friends with the one who is initiated and firm in his devotion, and one should lovingly serve the one who is realized in exclusive devotional worship of the Lord and whose heart is completely pure from the tendency to defame others and so on.

Moreover, since there are certainly saints in many traditions, one should seek the association of those who are endowed with a similar inclination on the path of devotion. One should always seek the association of such saints who are affectionate towards oneself and more advanced than oneself. On the merit of such association, all spiritual practices will rapidly yield the fruit of love of God.

(2) Nama-kirtana
(Chanting the Holy Names)

The holy name of the Lord is nondifferent from His own form, qualities and pastimes. Therefore the chanting of the holy names is considered an integral part of practice in the Gaudiya tradition. hanting of the holy names is known to be of two kinds, namely "japa" and "kirtana".

Japa -- Japa is individual meditation on the holy name, during which the aspirant quietly murmurs the holy names while keeping count on a mala (rosary) of 108 beads. According to the instructions of Sri Chaitanya, Gaudiya Vaishnavas chant the maha-mantra (great mantra) which is as follows:

Hare Krishna Hare Krishna
Krishna Krishna Hare Hare
Hare Rama Hare Rama
Rama Rama Hare Hare

This mantra consists of three divine names, namely Hara, Krishna and Rama. Hara, which becomes Hare in its vocative case, refers to She who steals the mind of Krishna, in other words Radha. Krishna refers to the all-attractive original person. Rama is another name for Him, meaning the one who brings delight to Radha and who enjoys varieties of transcendental sports.

In addition to the maha-mantra, panca-tattva mantra is often chanted prior to it. Panca-tattva mantra consists of the names of Sri Chaitanya and His four associates, namely Nityananda, Advaita, Gadadhara and Srivasa, along with "Gaura-bhakta-vrinda" (all devotees of Sri Chaitanya). There are slight variations for this mantra from lineage to lineage, but the basic pattern is the same.

Practitioners chant the holy name according to their capacity, completing a fixed number of names for each day. Sri Chaitanya recommended His followers to chant one lakha (100.000 names), which corresponds to some 64 rounds on the rosary. The counting of malas (rounds on the rosary) is done with a separate string of beads consisting of 16 small beads on one side and four on the other, meant for counting individual rounds and sets of 16 rounds respectively. The specific number of holy names to be completed each day is largely individual, and varies from a few hundred names to hundreds and thousands of names. It is common for dedicated saints to chant 100.000, 200.000 or 300.000 holy names (64, 128 and 192 rounds on rosary) per day.

As the eagerness and insight of the aspirant increases, the holy name reveals Himself proportionately unto him, eventually unfolding the entire world of divine reality along with the daily pastimes of the Divine Couple within the heart of the aspirant.

Kirtana -- Kirtana refers to the glorification of the holy names which is done aloud, often with the accompaniment of mridanga (clay drum) and karatalas (hand cymbals). When many faithful aspirants gather for loudly singing the holy names of the Lord, this is called sankirtana. Such kirtana is sometimes performed in the temples, and sometimes out on the streets in processions.

This sankirtana is understood to be the foremost among the sixty-four items of devotional practice. On account of its great ability for absorbing all senses in experiencing the sweetness of the Supreme Person, it is regarded as the most potent among all varieties of practice. Whereas many other practices depend on the lucidity of the practitioner's mind or on his ability of concentration, nama-sankirtana does not consider this, but instead plunges the aspirant in an ocean of divine happiness regardless of his qualification or lack thereof. During the modern age, it is understood that all devotional practices must be accompanied by nama-sankirtana to yield the fruit of pure loving devotion.

Sri Chaitanya glorified the paramount position of Krishna-sankirtana in the first stanza of His Siksastakam (Eight Instructions) as follows:

"May there be supreme victory for the congregational chanting of the names of Krishna! It cleanses the mirror of the heart, and extinguishes the great forest-fire of material existence. It is a great moon spreading its soothing rays, bringing to bloom the white lotus of good fortune of the living entitiy. The holy name is the life and soul of the young bride of divine wisdom, and an ever-increasing ocean of ecstacy, and by tasting it, the self becomes thoroughly cleansed, and comes to taste at every step the complete nectar it has always longed for."

The practice of nama-sankirtana is unequivocally recommended for one and all, since there are no hard and fast rules for it. It does not depend on time, place, person, articles of worship, purity or impurity. In whatever situation the holy names of the Lord are chanted, they prove to be beneficial for everyone.

(3) Bhagavat-sravana
(Hearing the Srimad Bhagavatam)

The scripture Srimad Bhagavata is known as the ripened fruit of the desire-tree of Vedic literatures. The study and hearing of the Bhagavata is essential for one who aspires to understand the science of approaching the Lord. The Bhagavata itself proclaims in its invocation:

"O knowers of divine rapture, O saints of the world, O people filled with sacred emotions! Always relish the Srimad Bhagavatam, the fully ripened fruit of the desire tree of Vedic literatures, complete in all respects, which emanated from the lips of Sukadeva Gosvami like a gush of nectar, being the abode of rasa itself!"

Though all efforts of studying the Bhagavata are certainly beneficial, the most benefit will be gained by approaching a self-realized soul who is expert in understanding the intricacies of philosophy and divine love presented in the scripture. Such a saint is the living medium of divine wisdom, and has the ability to deepen our understanding of the words of the scripture.

There are ten primary subject matters delineated in the Bhagavata, which are as follows:

(1) Sarga -- The primary creation, a description on the Lord as the origin of the elements of this world;
(2) Visarga -- The secondary creation, a description of the constituents and creation of this world;
(3) Sthana -- Various abodes where the living entities dwell, among which teh spiritual world is supreme;
(4) Posana -- The protection and care of the Lord for those depending on Him;
(5) Uti -- The impetus for action, an analysis of the various dispositions of the living entities in this world;
(6) Manvantara -- Descriptions of the cosmic ages of Manu, histories from the past ages;
(7) Isanukatha --The various descents of the Lord and His activities together with His great devotees;
(8) Nirodha -- The eventual withdrawing of the cosmic manifestation by the Lord;
(9) Mukti -- Liberation from the bondage of matter and the attainment of one's constitutional nature;
(10) Asraya -- The ultimate shelter of everything, the ever-independent Supreme Person.

The Bhagavata reveals its profound philosophical and theological precepts in the course of narrating various histories describing the Lord and His devotees. A comprehensive study of the Srimad Bhagavatam enables the aspirant to understand his relationship with the Lord, the dynamics of such a relationship, and its ultimate goal.

It should be understood that the practice of hearing the Bhagavata also includes hearing and discussing literature following in the wake of the message of the Bhagavata. Over the centuries, innumerable saints and sages have elaborated on the original message of the Bhagavata in accordance with their divine insight, and the study and hearing of such writings is also most beneficial in deepening one's understanding and realization.

The Bhagavata itself describes the fruit of such hearing:

"The Supreme Lord rapidly manifests in the heart of one who faithfully endeavors to always hear the message of the Bhagavata. Through the holes of their ears, the Lord descends to the lotus of his heart, awakening his unique, natural disposition towards Him, and cleansing him from all mundane evils, such as lust, greed, anger and so forth, just as fresh autumnal rains clear the muddy pools of water."

There are innumerable beautiful writings describing the Lord's name, form, characteristics and pastimes with His beloved associates. Attentive hearing of such descriptions awakens a feeling of natural attraction towards the Lord and creates a powerful impetus for progressing on the journey for divine love for the Lord.

(4) Mathura-vasa
(Living in the Holy Land of Mathura)

When the Lord descends to this world with His eternal associates, His divine abode descends along with Him to serve as His playground in this world. This holy abode of the Lord manifest in the earthly realm is an exact replica of the celestial world in the realm beyond. Mathura Mandala and Vraja Mandala are two names for the sacred abode where Sri Krishna enacted His pastimes some 5000 years ago.

Though such a place may appear to us as just another territory in the mundane world, it appears as such only on account of our mundane vision. The imperfect beings of this world lack the eyes to see the divine world of the Lord, which is ever-permeated with love divine. However, in the course of practice our senses and mind are purified, which enables us to behold the divine realm of Vraja instead of its illusory covering manifest to our present eyes.

The various places around Vraja Mandala are a perfect impetus for invoking remembrance of the Lord's pastimes within the heart, and the association of saints living in such places, spending their time in absorption in thoughts of the Lord, can never fail to leave one empty-hearted. However blinded one may be, he can never escape the supramundane potency of such a holy place. For those unable to live in or visit places such as Vraja Mandala, it is advised that one should live there mentally by being absorbed in thoughts of the Lord's pastimes there.

The land of Vraja Mandala is divided in twelve forests, spreading over 84 krosas (168 square kilometers). They are collectively known as Vrindavana, or the forest of Vrinda, named after Vrinda Devi, the goddess presiding over the forests, making all varieties of delicate arrangements to perfect the loving pastimes of the Divine Couple. In his "Nectarine Instructions", Rupa Gosvami presents a hierarchy of divinity among the holy places within and outside the district of Vraja:

"The city of Mathura is superior to the spiritual world of Vaikuntha, since the Lord Himself appeared there. Superior to Mathura is the forest of Vrindavana, since Krishna displayed His pastime of rasa-lila (circle dance) there. Superior to Vrindavana is the Govardhana hill, which was lifted by the Lord Himself, and where He enacted numerous pastimes with His dear associates. However, above all is the lake known as Radha Kunda, since it is overflooded with the nectarine blissful loving plays of the Lord of Gokula. Where is that discriminating person who would not desire to serve this divine lake situated at the foot of Govardhana hill?"

Vraja Mandala is saturated with divine love, being the personal playground of the Lord, and therefore it is a most befitting place for an aspirant who desires to perfect his spontaneous loving propensity for the Divine Couple.

(5) Sri-murti-seva
(Serving the Worshipable Form of the Lord)

The transcendental form of the Lord is beyond the grasp of mundane sense perception. However, since there is a need for the practitioners to render concrete service for the Lord, in His kindness He assumes a form consisting of the elements of this world, visible to humans. Such a form of the Lord is called an arca-vigraha (form to be worshiped) or an arca-avatara (an incarnation for worship), commonly referred to as a deity-form of the Lord.

Faithful service to the deity of the Lord allows the aspirant to establish a personal relationship of service with the Lord by cooking for Him, preparing clothes for Him, singing for Him, arranging festivals in His celebration, offering incense and flowers unto Him, and so forth.

The deity forms of the Lord are of eight kinds: (1) Made of stone, (2) made of wood, (3) made of metal, (4) made of earth, (5) painted, (6) made of sand, (7) envisioned in the mind, and (8) made of jewels. After the completion of the deity form, the Lord is invoked into this form by a dear devotee of the Lord, a loving servant of His. Thus the Lord appears among the elements of this world to accept the loving service of His devotees.

In addition to facilitating the development of a personal relationship with the Lord, the process of arcana (deity worship) helps the practitioner to become clean and regulated on account of the various ceremonies to be observed in relation to serving the Lord. The maintenance of both external and internal purity is essential for securing sound progress on the path of spiritual life. The practice of deity worship is particularly essential for people who are living and working in the society, since it very tangibly ensures that the service of the Lord remains the centre of all endeavors. The deity forms of the Lord are often found in temples where people gather for worship, but it is equally common for devotees to have their own deity form whom they worship at home.

The most common deity forms worshiped in the Gaudiya tradition are the forms of Radha-Krishna, who are installed on the altar side by side. Such service follows in the wake of the eternal maidservants of the Divine Couple, and facilitates the development of such a desired mood. Sometimes the forms of Sri Chaitanya and His brother Nityananda are installed on the altar and are served in their loving pastimes in the realm of Navadvipa. Though not as common as Nityananda, His dear associate Gadadhara is also seen on altars alongside with Him, and sometimes the complete pentatheon (Panca Tattva) of the Lord in His various aspects is worshiped.

The exact procedures of worship vary from lineage to lineage. The aspirant is acquainted with particular methods of worship at the time of diksa (initiation), when the guru conveys to him the mantras to be contemplated upon and to be used in his worship along with instructions on the same. The process of arcana also includes certain internal aspects of visualized worship of the Divine Couple to be conducted in addition to the outer worship.

Though some of the practices presented herein may appear rather demanding, it should be noted that everyone may adopt them according to their particular eligibility and evolve over time closer to perfection. There is certainly a long journey to be wandered in obtaining love of God, but a sincere practitioner will experience joy on every step in approaching the object of his aspirations.